Why it is okay to talk to yourself on a regular basis?
Self Talk is a great relaxing therapy for mind!
Today, our lives are full of stress, tension and insecurities. We all have a cobweb of technology around us. Surfing internet, chatting on social media and exchanging texts has become our daily routine. Have you ever noticed that sometime you yell on others that too for no reason? Sometime it becomes difficult to figure out that why we even started arguing. The major cause behind all this is -‘Frustration’. Frustration of having no real friends, frustration of always proving your worth, frustration of being in a toxic relationship, and many more.
Today, it has become difficult to explain frustration. It varies from person to person. Some are struggling professionally, some are struggling personally, some are sad because they are not able to get married, some are sad because they have got married. Everyone has their own of problems. So, is there any way to get out of this vicious cycle? What should an individual do to get inner peace?
The best way to relax your mind is, talking to yourself. People might call you crazy but talking to yourself is actually a great way to burst the stress. It’s important to appreciate yourself time to time.
Here is how you should talk to yourself:
1.Pep Talk is important: Self –talk can actually motivate you to give your best at work, relationship, or in your personal behavior.
2.Appreciate yourself: Even if nobody is appreciating you, it’s important to appreciate yourself for all the good things you did.
3.Give Importance to your inner voice: While taking difficult decisions, we all get confused. At that time do not forget to give importance to your inner voice.
4.Understand your thoughts: Sometimes people do not understand your psychology. Even if you try hard to make them understand. So, it is important for you to first understand your thoughts properly to make people understand them better.
5.Keep Stress at bay: While talking to yourself, feel comfortable as you are in a comfort zone. Do not get stressed out while talking to yourself.
Always remember every problem comes with a solution, and sometimes we just miss out the appropriate solution. Self –talk can do wonders in your life. Practicing it regularly can help you to shed all the toxic content from your life.