Things You Miss About Your Ex
No matter how hard you try to move on, some things about your ex would keep haunting you. And things get even more difficult to forget when you have spent a lot of time with them.
First date, first movie, first anniversary etc., everything is special with the one who was once special. However, sometimes circumstances change the entire chemistry and scenario of a relationship. Here are a few things that you would always miss about your Ex:
Fragrance: After spending a good and a cozy time with your partner, you tend to smell like them for a brief period of time. If you belong to the category that tends to get turned on with a good fragrance then you would actually miss your partner when you pass by someone who wears the same perfume or when you look at the brand of the deodorant or perfume your partner used to wear.
Conversation/Argument: Romantic conversations or horrible fights, all make memories. If you had been sharing everything with your ex, then it is quite obvious that you would remind yourself of those moments. Often we talk with a person and he or she says something or does something that happened the same way with our ex, such things trigger a part of memory and make us realise the sort of relationships that we shared with them.
Family: If you were one of the lucky girlfriend or boyfriend who met his/her parents and loved hanging around with them, then you would definitely miss all of this. Probably you would be the one singing, “Teri Galiyaan” or any other song which depicts your feelings in the exact way. However, who would you miss more? Your partner or their parents or their siblings! Well, you got to decide on that.
The place you went for your first date/ the place you saw him for the first time: No matter if you saw your partner at the school ground or went for a date in a place he or she loves, the essence, the feeling and the memory remains as fresh as ever. You would definitely re-live those memories whenever you would visit or pass-by. Or probably, you may never want to visit the place because the relationship didn’t work out well.
The last message or call of the day: Addiction is one of the worst things that could happen to you when you are in a relationship and when it comes to an end. You must have moved on in life, but whenever you check your whatsapp or the text message, you would look at the last conversation you had with your partner, this would definitely happen when you have separated recently. Friends do keep you engrossed in conversations and you keep yourself busy too, but the ‘Last Seen’ does trigger something in you. Doesn’t it?
Common Friends: Though the friends you made through your partner would help you in every way they can to make you move on, but you might just hesitate to talk to them after your break-up as they are your partner’s friend first and then yours. However, if you have become thick fiends with them then you would miss the times when you all hanged out together having fun time in your life and how you became BHABHI for every friend of his or JIJU for every friend of hers but now you are just what you are.
We all would agree to the fact that every relationship, no matter how many times we have moved on, leaves us with bruises when it breaks and also, leaves memories to cherish or to miss. The points we mentioned are the few common things you would have experienced once in your life, but if you have any other things you miss about your Ex then do write to us at kiara@oneworldnews.in (Shhhh… it would be kept secret :-))
