My Best Friend’s Marriage!
Wow! Your best friend is getting married. The wedding is sure to bring a gala time for you. You must be filled with excitement and would have so many plans for the special day.
The time when you are busy in shopping and enjoying the moment you forget that this time would soon vanish and then will start an altogether different time for you.
Having a true friend is a blessing from god because it is difficult to find good friend. Maintaining the same relationship with your friend after marriage as you have right now may become very difficult.
Suddenly your life gets changed, a friend ‘who was always yours’ now has someone who is more important than you.
So, for all those who are going to see their chuddy buddy hitched this wedding season, here at One World News, we bring to you some suggestions that you can do to enjoy your friendship and extend it into married life.
Change priorities: As your friend is tying knot so, now she or he will be busier in planning their future life. Your “we time” will get reduced. Rather than listening to your problems he/she will talk about the third person, who is of course someone special in their life.
This may irritate you but be a god friend and have patience in the initial days.
“My friend’s marriage is around the corner. We frequently go for shopping but every time her future husband is with her. They keep on talking and I don’t even get a chance to communicate with her. I feel now I am not that important for her”, says Neha Rawat
Shower of advises: Once your best friend gets married, suddenly a rain of advises will start. From your mother, siblings to even your so called cool friend will advise you to get married soon.
You will find your all new friend. A person with a cool attitude will start telling you how it is important to have Mr. Right or Ms. Right in life.
“He was a person with a no tension attitude. Now every time I find him in tension and he only talks about his in- laws; he has turned into a pakao uncle”, says Harshit Joshi
Get along with the spouse: Your friend definitely is your type of person but it is not necessary that her/his spouse is also. So, it is important to get along with your best friend’s spouse to have more compatibility. This would not be annoying for him/her and not for you because by doing this you will be able to spend quality time with your friend.
Cool Temperament will go off: After the marriage of your friend, the situation will change. Now you would not be able to call your friend at 3 ‘o’ clock in the night just to discuss your problems. Surely, you won’t disturb her/him. But you have to accept these types of changes as you will also experience all this one day.
To add some twist in the tale we decided to talk to soon-to-be-bride Pankhuri Chandra-Sood and asked how she feels about the changes she will witness after marriage.
“Of course my priorities will change after marriage but this doesn’t mean that my friends will lose their importance in my life” claims Pankhuri.
Well, these are some changes you will observe around you once the party time will get over. But try to look at the good side of it; you will get one more friend. Also now you would have an experienced friend who can guide you once you get into the same shoes.
Welcome the change and enjoy the festivity of the wedding.
