Is that just a Crush or am I in love?
How do you feel when she sits next to you, shares jokes and spends quality time with you? Are you unable to figure out if it’s just a crush or you seem to have fallen for that person?
Well, to reach a conclusion, you must understand the difference between love and crush. I know it is a bit difficult task but then be assured, this makes your romantic life even more enthralling and interesting.
Here are some points to know what exactly you feel about the person, who gives you butterflies in your stomach the moment you see her/ him.
1. Do you frequently stare: Yes, this is an important point to note because your eye contact with that person says a lot about your commitment and your devotion for that person? If you just can’t take your eyes off from him or her that shows your deep affection towards the person.
2. Do you feel secure to share your secrets: When you have a crush on someone then you always try to know everything about him or her but never share your own secrets. Yet, if you do that, then probably that’s love because that means you trust that person and ‘Trust’ is the first step towards love.
3. How important that person is in your life: Replying to his/ her messages first is your priority? Do you accept all flaws of his/ her personality and don’t want to change them then surely you are in love! But then if this doesn’t happen then it may be a crush.
4. Do you feel genuine affection for this person: It is a genuine feeling or you just fooling yourself for getting out of your previous relation? If yes, then your affection would go off in a couple of days just like fever.
5. If you experience physical attraction then they are likely to be your crush: Most of the crush comes through physical and emotional attraction. So, this is an obvious sign this may turn into love or can go off like any other crush.
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Hope you got your answer whether it is a cushy- mushy crush or deep, committed love. Whatever it may be just enjoy the phase of life!
