As many say, girls can be a little difficult to understand. And, how exactly do you win over the girl you like? Let me tell you a few tips that might actually help you with the girl of your dreams.
1. Never lie to her: One thing that you need to understand about women is, they don’t like when people lie to them. You might think that it is for her good, but, try telling her the truth, it works even better.
2. Show interest: Listen to what she has to say. They don’t like being ignored and being sidelined. Go out for a coffee or a walk and let her open her heart to you.
3. Participate in the conversation: Yes, listen to what she says, but, also reply back. It has to be a give and take relationship. Only when you participate does she feel that you actually value and care for her. Build a connection with her,
4. Give her space: Don’t be a clingy and possessive person around her. She needs her own space without being answerable to someone all the time.
5. Care for her: Take care of her when she needs you. You don’t always have to be a superman and try to do something extraordinary. Little things like surprising her with an ice-cream when she is low, getting her tickets to her favourite movie – make all the difference.
6. be good to people she cares about: Now, this might be a little difficult. We girls would want that our guy is good to the people closest to us. We don’t want you to be rude to people who mean a lot to us. If you can’t maintain a good relation with them then we might not like you that much.
7. TELL THEM THAT YOU LIKE THEM: Yes. Trust me. This is probably the most significant thing ever. Contrary to popular belief, we don’t easily understand the hints. We are not mind readers(*glass shatters*). If you like her, then tell her directly. Her responses and reactions are secondary. It is important that the girl knows you “like her” before its too late and she friend zones you.
You, My Sir, have to take the ‘leap of faith’. You can always do the cute little things, give her hints and make small gesture, but, nothing has more power than words. And who knows? She might just like you, too.
