Valentine’s Day 2023: Understanding the desires of millennial men
What millennial men want The day is here, and couples are all geared up. Everybody wants to woo their partner in the best possible way. This is a week full of love, surprises, and romance all around. Well, the meaning of dating has changed these days. People are now more practical and emotionally independent when it comes to dating. Millennial are redefining dating rules, but men still feel pressure when wooing their potential partners.
Firstly, women need to stop generalizing men. All men are not the same. Apart from that, women need to understand that millennial men want ‘Equality’ regarding financial status, thought process and making the first move.
In this era, we all talk about what women want, but it is equally important to understand what millennial men want from their potential partner.
1. He wants her to be self-sufficient
Millennial men want their partner to be self–sufficient. They look for a woman who can take care of their expenses and give them career advice. They don’t like the dependent partner.
2. It’s not all about a Beautiful face
Gone are the days when men used to run behind beauty. Today, it is much more than a beautiful face. They like to have an honest conversation and want someone who can understand their passion. He doesn’t wish to arm candy. They also look for several other qualities, such as humour, motherliness, intellect, and much more. Of course, it varies from person to person.
3. A big No to mixed signals
Just like the world, love has also become practical. Mixed signals can be really frustrating. We all know men are chasers, but they hate mixed signals. If you prefer to avoid being approached directly, you can at least give positive signs to the guy you want.
4. They are open to new learning
Their ego doesn’t get hurt when you teach them something meaningful. Millennial men love learning new things, primarily if guided by their partner. Try to strike up some knowledgeable conversation with them.
5. Emotional Stability tops the list
Not every man would like wild and crazy girls. Millennial men, planning to settle down, look for an emotionally stable partner. They want to keep emotional trauma at bay. For a peaceful relationship, they look for an emotionally independent woman.
6. He doesn’t want you to Compromise but at least you can Adjust
Millennial men know the difference between Compromise and Adjustment. They don’t want you to compromise, but it will be great if you adjust. They want someone who can gel well with their friends and family. For that, you can make some adjustments. After all, nobody can replace the warmth of a family.
7. Understanding the Importance of Personal space and female friendship
They want a partner who understands their work culture and that being a couple doesn’t mean staying together 24×7. Everybody needs personal space so does your partner. Above all, millennial men want that their partner to be mature enough to understand that he doesn’t have an affair with his female friends.
8. They want a mixture of Love + Friendship
In a nutshell, they want an amalgamation of love and friendship. There should be a rock–solid friendship along with sizzling hot chemistry.
Recently, we got in touch with a few young men and tried to understand their expectations:
“I can talk to her for hours and share my deepest secrets. She doesn’t judge me, and I think that’s enough for me to understand that she is my Ms Right.” – Raman Sharma, 24, Engineer.
“If she can pay her bills, take care of our family and raise our kids. Why can’t I do the same? I love doing dishes with her. We believe in equality. So, when she doesn’t feel like cooking, I do it. It’s simple sharing and caring. Laughs.” – Kunal Arora, 29, Self Employed
“She knows that my world revolves around her. She respects my space and never questions me about random female friends I talk to. She knows that I am loyal and committed to her. That makes our relationship special.” – Sidharth Jain, 21, Student.
“We have been dating each other for the past 4 years, and I am still not ready for marriage. And she is okay with it. She wants me to take my time before saying’ Yes’. She knows marriage is not everything and deals with it with many maturities. It makes me feel special. At least, she can understand my point of view.” – Viraj Khanna, 28, Blogger.
Conclusion
Men are ready to make adjustments. Not all are filled with ego. It’s just they want the right partner. Millennial men are quick to settle down. They want someone to share their life with. They want a partner, which means a partnership in all spheres of life.
