Six ways which make the friendship in boys understood & How Boys become ‘Bhai’ for their best friend?
How Boys Become ‘Bhai’ for Their Best friend? Call it a blessing or a legacy; boys are famous for celebrating their friendship daily. From the word Bhai to the nationally accepted mild abuse is called a journey in friendship for boys. The Bromance and the unmatched Bro-code are evident in all spheres of life, from colleges to the working space. The friendship took over the nation’s attention after several web series and trendsetters in cinema like ‘Zindagi Na Milegi Dobara,’ ‘3 Idiots’, ‘Yeh Jawaani Hai Diwani,’ ‘Sholay’ and so on.
Here are six ways which make the friendship in boys understood and
How Boys Become ‘Bhai’ for Their Best friend? –
1. I got your back BRO!!
Boys or say, men have each other’s support in every Ps and Ts from helping them get out of a situation, whether it be a personal crisis or financial crisis. There is a clear understanding amongst them when handling a case. For instance, when you get late to meet your girlfriend, and she is angry, trust us, some excuse with global interest will pop up.
2. It is yours only, take it!!
Falling short of clothes, all dirty? No worries!! Boys have a code of clothing where they share their wardrobe with no hesitance. The time of an emergency needs immediate attention, just like boys do. Fits or it doesn’t is hardly a matter of concern for boys while dressing.
3. We had a fight, really?
When it comes to a girl, she remembers every minute detail of a fight, from words used to all past mistakes, and takes it to the end. But the scenario changes completely when it is about men. It would take a maximum of 10 minutes to forget a fight, even if the fight included some physical hospitality.
4. Hushh!! Keep it between us
Girls are already defamed by gossiping a lot and keeping secrets, but in the case of men, the code of trust is kept way better because they forget what was shared with them. Call it irresponsibility or carelessness, but somewhat they keep the secret.
5. Bhai-Bhai
The patent line of all men says “Tera Yaar hu Mai,” which gets them going. Every time some work is stuck for a reason, and you find a ‘yaar’ there and boom, it is done. Saw a man wearing the same t-shirt, there it was Bhai-Bhai. Men have the art of making every little moment a big one. So, give a choir to “yeh dosti hum nahi todenge” ….
6. A shoulder to cry on
Boys don’t cry! Do you also believe so? Well, it’s okay to keep your emotions gender-free. However, this is also true that some boys don’t shed their tears in front of everybody and anywhere. They need their own space and people to let it out. And only his best friend has heard his loudest cry after a breakup, an argument with dad, and mummy ki yaad. Bhai always lends the strongest and most comfortable shoulder to cry on.
We are not afraid to agree that this kind of friendship is rare among women. If you share such a sis-code with your besties, you are also a Bhai to each other irrespective of gender.
So, there is no harm in taking some notes from the boys’ gang.
Edited By Ayushi Mittal
