How to turn yourself on?
Have you ever experienced a time when you weren’t with your partner but wanted to have the pleasure of getting a hard-on or aroused? How many times have you worked really hard to masturbate because you couldn’t just turn yourself on? Well, it could be difficult to get high without anyone’s help but it is not impossible. Today, I tell you a few things that can actually help you overcome such problems:
Sex-Chat: Not having your partner around could be an obstacle but you have your phone right next to you which can address the problem right away. Call up your partner, start the conversation in a normal way by asking how their day has been and stuff, then start talking about your last make-out experience. You could be like: “Hey do you know the last time when you were on me, you looked extremely hot! And there is so much to explore on you… I would just love to do it once more, would you?” Now it depends on you how you want to do the chat, it could be textual or on phone. And if you live alone, so does your partner, then video chat can work in way better way.
Group Conversation: Do you remember the times when you would just enter some random group and talk to anonymous people about anything? Well, you can try this for your sexual purpose too. Find an appropriate group and start your conversation or you can even be a silent reader or observer of what others are talking about. The fun in these chats is that you never know who hits upon your right chord and teaches you some new moves to practice the next time you go over your partner.
Videos: I don’t have to actually guide you about anything in this case. Youtube and some porn sites can always help you. However, if you have out grown them then you can try going to a specific purpose category. Like if you are someone who likes long foreplay then search for only foreplay videos or if you are someone who likes watching moves that can excite you and your partner then you can watch any video where a man plays most of the role or vice-versa.
Go back to your sex times: This works really well with a lot of people. Just lay back on your bed and recollect the best time on bed with you partner. Think about the moves that made you lose control, the new moves you would want to explore, the part you really love to touch or the best way you can communicate your emotions through your body, just imagine and you will get what you want. Soft music would add up to the flavour. If you have any of your partner’s clothes then you can keep it beside you and touch yourself with it and imagine that it is your partner, you would definitely be turned on with this move.
Read some article or book: Take up some magazine/e-article that really interests you (visiting cosmopolitan is not a bad idea) or any erotic book (50 Shades of Grey could work if you just want to get high) read it, work with imagination, feel and yes, you will get there.
These are few tips we have for you, if you want to add something to it or something else that you have tried at times you wanted to be high or get a hard on then surely write to us at kiara@oneworldnews.in
