Emotional abuse can be worse than physical abuse
Most people know about what is physical abuse, but when it comes to emotional abuse, people usually have less idea about it. And it can be more dangerous than physical abuse. Emotions can become torture. It is such a tactic where people torture their partner or anyone emotionally. They might know it has something to do with treating your partner badly like making them feel small and ashamed in front of others either in a public place or in your bedroom.
By this, your partner totally falls into breaks. Somehow it becomes very difficult to handle this nature. In today’s lifestyle, we have become so busy in our daily stuff that we treat emotional abuse as a normal gesture. But ignoring it is not a solution. You have to raise your voice.
Emotional abuse is generally about control. Sometimes this is explicit. If you are one of them, you should take a right decision to come out of this situation. But if you are unable to find out that you are really the victim of emotional abuse or not?
Here are some signs from which you can easily find out if the person is you or not:-
1.Quarrel all the time
It is common with every couple and it’s totally normal. But if your partner is not trying to eliminate the fight and not making the environment normal and cool, then it’s the time when you should understand that your partner is tiring you.
2 Blaming yourself in every situation
If it is happening with you that when you think that you are right at your place and you are doing something good for your partner, then also he or she is using their finger against you. Then its time to take decision . All the time if they you give the silent treatment or blackmails you as a way of manipulating you. They usually blame you for any situation and then there comes where you also think the problem is yours in everything.
3.All the time they take discourse
Does it ever happen to you that you are helping someone or being nice with people or you are doing a good work, but your partner doesn’t like it? Is it happening with you, then get my words my dear, they won’t ever going to support you and this is the reason you avoid sharing anything with your partner and somehow we all understand that this is wrong.
4 Always criticize
If your partner always criticizes you for your small things like it could be name calling or making lots of unpleasant or sarcastic comments on you and there is more than that like you have increased your weight, you don’t cook well, your dressing sense is not good; don’t wear these types of dresses and many more things. This can really lower a person’s self-esteem and self-confidence. So, you should understand that he gives attention only to your shortcomings.
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