Love or textationship? This is how you can identify it before the relationship is confirmed !
If you’re feeling more stressed than fulfilled, or if the connection feels hollow, it’s likely not love but a textationship.
Love or textationship ? This is how you can identify it before the relationship is confirmed !
A “textationship” is communication relationship with the other party that is never or seldom met in person. In most cases, people in such relationships tend to believe that it is a genuine relationship, while it’s just about getting things done without having to worry about making further efforts to build intimacy. Some people joke and say when you’re in one, you think you’re falling in love when actually it’s just been reduced to Fairfield’s infamous textationship.
Here’s how you can identify it –
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Lack of Real Interaction:
If the person is always sending text messages but never makes arrangements to meet in person it is most likely a scammer. Further, in a real relationship people crave to meet face to face. Even utilizing text can just mimic interpersonal communication experiences, gestures, and face-to-face interactions.
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Surface-Level Conversations:
They also observed that text relationships involve very little depth of discussion. If you are only talking about what you do all day, your job, the weather, and other similar stuff and no life plans, principles, or emotions, then it cannot be called love. Real relationships are developed based on communication that is real and can grow deep.
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Emotional Distance:
A textationship is much more active – a person can be in touch with someone, even teasing each other, however, it is emotionally devoid. A real relationship requires a person to open up, come to terms with, and even nurture and be affectionate, textationships have no such thing as deep feelings being involved usually.
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Lack of Effort:
In civil relationships individuals will invest time into the relationship they will arrange for dates, calls or appointments to meet. In his text, if all that he is doing is sending text messages and no other form of body language then one cannot really tell that he is committed.
Finally, if you are more stressed in a relationship, or the relationship seems to be devoid of love, then it is probably not love; it is a textationship. Before investing your emotions to the other person, think if the other goes out of the way to construct a personal relationship.
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